Each one of them has a specific role which gives a balanced happy life. In this modern revolutionary era the role of each gender has expanded. It is seen that different roles are adapted and played nicely. With the changes occurring in the society there arises the need to understand each other. It is a great step that we are moving towards women empowerment which is giving an additional support and platform for stability and security. The development is seen much faster as women are complementing men in professional ground also. After a long struggle women are getting a platform where they can come forward and establish their identity. The thoughts about women has changed, the need is to understand men in this fast moving world.
Since ancient age men were hunters, the provider and protector of the family. They had to find their own way, take risk and gather food and necessities for the family. They needed plan, system to follow and get results.
The general perception about men is they are strong less expressive, have low sensitivity, less communication, problem solver and egoistic. The need is to understand that this image is given to them by society and only when they have this quality they are MEN. These beliefs are deeply rooted rules of behavior, part and parcel of what it means to be men. As women have started working with men and also live as a life partner with him it is essential to understand men so there is harmony and a beautiful life.
Some behaviors
Big boys don’t cry- This belief do not allow them to connect to their emotions and moreover to express their emotions. The fact is they are emotional but are not suppose to express it to be men.
Linear thinking is all- They proceed step wise as per their hunter tendency since ancient times. In the process they take their own time and don’t like others involvement and suggestions.
It can always be fixed- They are use to fix the problem and do not give importance to the struggle involved and the feeling attached to it. As a result they are judged as insensitive people but that is not the case.
Power + control- Men are socialized to measure their own value in terms of how much power and control they have and not how sensitive they can be or how deeply they can connect with another person, but it may be other way round.
The other areas to be taken into consideration
Memory- Men has a memory that is stronger in situation where they can recall the details of an event by making an association with something concrete such as location or item and not with emotions felt at that time.
Communication style- Men tend to be more introspective about their problem and choose to deal with them with their partner. When they do decide to discuss a problem it is usually after much thought and careful consideration. When they are angry they are not angry with the person but with their idea.
One track mind- Men tend to excel better at singular task this may stem from the male role of hunter who is fixated on a singular objective.
It is often said men don’t feel the pain the reality is pain is activated in the right side of the brain in men which is connected to the external stimuli so they don’t feel the pain intensely.
Men respect hopes and dreams other things are given less importance.
The life becomes easy and beautiful once you understand and respect men as they never express and expects others to understand them.
