Experience …the trend setter
Every one of us experiences many things every single day. Every single experience builds your beliefs, personality, behavior and work ethics. You start gathering experiences from the day you are born. As an infant you experience the touch, smell, love, care, anger and all the emotions. The infants understand everything they just don’t have the words to say. The experience starts nurturing the child. The positive experience gives them positivity, confidence and security. The negative experience makes them under confident, negative and insecure. This all stays with them till they are adult.
As a toddler the child starts moving and experience many things and explore on his own. The experiences he get from his parents are very important. The love, care, and compassion the child experience builds him up to be a good human being. He gets a positive outlook of the world. On the other hand the anger, frustration of the parents disturbs the toddler a lot. He gets confused and insecure, develops a negative attitude toward the world.
The preteens gather variety of experience from the school where he meets friends and teachers. Each experience he gathers is interpreted as per his knowledge and awareness which shapes his personality. The mode of interpretation is adopted from the parents at early age. The way the parents interpret the experience defines child’s interpretation. Friends play a big role. The friendship builds confidence, self esteem and power to do things and solve problems. On the other hand bullying brings the preteen down, loses confidence, and has low self esteem and struggle to solve problems. The teachers are the role models. The experience with the teachers lays a strong impact on child’s life. The teaching style of the teacher is the profound experience for the child. This experience helps the child to be a go getter and succeed. The bad experiences make him a rebel.
Teenage is the most happening stage of an individual. Emotional and intellectual development is at its peak. There is constant conflict between the head and the heart. On one hand he has to work hard and decide for his career and pursue it well on other hand wants to have fun with friends. They work hard academically. Undergo pressure from parents, teachers and peers. The experiences they gather decide their thoughts, patterns, study style, mindset, organizational skills and goals. The interpretation of the experiences matters. The interpretation is influenced by parents, teachers, friends and mentor. The need is to see that you interpret the experience in such a way that you move forward and succeed. You also gather immense experience through social media which generates so many thoughts. It always depends what kind of experience you want to gather. Associating with the people you look up will help you to gather good experience which will be of help.
As a young adult you are in your professional career. You gather a different set of experience which teaches you the life lessons. It is a huge learning experience make most out of it.
You get married and enter a different phase of your life. You gather experience and life lessons which help you to live a better life. Again it is important which experience you gather.
When you are parent the journey is full of joy and responsibility with day to day experiences. Your experiences and its interpretation decide the interpretation style of your child.
Once you have gathered all the experience it is time to know what experience you are giving to people. Each and everyone that meets you gather some experience in personal and professional life. The experience which you give can make or break a person. Most of the time it goes unnoticed that people are gathering experience from you. It would be a welcome step if you decide to give beautiful experience to people with which they can upgrade their life and live happily.
Experience is what designs an individual.
